Last weekend I dropped my adult daughter off at a major regional airport for her 7 hour flight to Abu Dhabi. She was travelling alone.
When I arrived home, I connected to a flight app which enabled me to track the movement of her plane as it left the UK over The Wash and flew over continental Europe, over Turkey, and Iran and the Gulf before arriving at her destination.
Of course, she was able to let me know that she had arrived safely and had been met at the airport by her friend.
During the week we have had an array of photographs and messages indicating the highlights of her holiday.
It is strange how when we create a physical distance between us, there is something within us which draws us closer together.
In a strange way, I have felt more connected with her during this absence than I would normally have experienced in the everyday normality of life.
Its not that I don’t love her deeply, it is just that I am not normally so conscious of it.
The experience deep within, has somehow been forced up to the surface throughout this separation and reminded me of the enormity of my love for all my children, now grown into adults and how, despite occasional difficulties which we experience in our family, my ability to experience and demonstrate my love for them will never fade.
My next blog will be: Opportunity Cost
William Defoe
I’m so touched by this post and your previous post about your Dad. Fascinating how distance isn’t the hard measure we imagine it might be… that you (and any of us) can be more connected to someone thousands of miles away – or even someone who is no longer alive – than we are to the person standing right next to us. Seems to me that our love and attention that defines proximity…. Thank you so much for reminding us of that.
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Hi Janeena – it always gives me such a boost to know that my posts have in some way connected with something that has resonance with you on your journey. Thanks you for taking the time to comment on my post – William Defoe
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